thirtysomething Season 1, Episode 5: But Not for Me

1

Pilot

Hope and Michael Steadman are still adjusting to parenthood while struggling with money problems and best-friend crises.

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2

The Parents Are Coming, the Parents Are Coming

Hope's anxiety over her parents' impending visit taxes everyone's patience.

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3

Housewarming

Michael and Hope race to renovate their crumbling mansion for a huge housewarming party.

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4

Couples

A night out with friends degenerates as Nancy and Elliot's marital woes become apparent.

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5

But Not for Me

Gary and Melissa rekindle their affair; Michael and Hope's first date in months is a disaster.

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6

We Gather Together

Hope and Michael plan a quiet Thanksgiving but learn friends are counting on being invited.

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7

Nice Work If You Can Get It

Before a deadline, Michael and Elliot wrestle with a creativity block; Ellyn develops a crush on an associate.

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8

Weaning

Sensing baby Janey's decreasing dependency on her, depressed Hope decides to go back to work.

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9

I'll Be Home for Christmas

Michael and Hope argue about whether their infant's first holiday should be Christmas or Hanukkah. A famous photographer shows interest in Melissa's work.

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10

South by Southeast

It's a Hitchcockian nightmare as Gary falls in love; as the romance progresses, he begins receiving a series of threats against his life.

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11

Therapy

Elliot and Nancy seek professional help for their troubled marriage; Michael finds it hard to keep it a secret.

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12

Competition

Michael's jealousy is aroused when an important client make it clear he prefers Elliot. Meanwhile, Hope and Nancy try to come to terms with computers.

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13

Separation

Elliot temporarily moves in with Michael and Hope after separating from Nancy.

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14

I'm in Love, I'm in Love, I'm in Love with a Wonderful Gynecologist

Competing for the attention of the same man jeopardizes the new found friendship between Ellyn and Melissa.

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15

Business as Usual

Michael's hopes for a joyous reunion with his father are destroyed when he discovers the real reason for the visit.

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16

Accounts Receivable

A rocky relationship between Michael and his brother Brad is further strained when Michael learns the family business is almost bankrupt.

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17

Whose Forest Is This?

Nancy and Elliot's separation takes its toll on their son; Elliot prepares for a blind date with a chiropractor.

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18

Nancy's First Date

Melissa's burgeoning romance slows when she learns he doesn't want any more kids. Nancy has her first date since the separation.

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19

Undone

Michael's old girlfriend from college pays a visit.

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20

Tenure

Gary evaluates the fate of his academic career as he undergoes tenure review at the college. Ellyn learns her building is going co-op, leaving her to decide whether to buy her apartment.

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21

Born to Be Mild

Ellyn and Woodman's weekend is ruined when they are forced to babysit Janey.

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